Ahhhhhh Routine
This morning, I dropped the girls off at school at 8am. It was their first day back to school since December 19 and I must say that I am very proud of myself for completely diving into full-time motherhood again.
I LOVE THESE AGES! The girls are 5 and 7, just 18 months apart, and they get along really well. I’d say they are giggling 85% of the time; bickering 15%. That aint bad. (My brother and I are 18 months apart and I can’t say there was all that much giggling.)
Before the break, I made a list of ‘chores’ I needed to do and I also made a ‘play’ list! I wanted to make sure that I didn’t get so wrapped up in cleaning out closets that I neglected the fun to be had with my wee ones. So, we did crafts, played games, made snowmen, x-country skiied, went sledding, snuggled and watched fun movies. I also got a few chores done.
The best part was that — dare I say it? — I ignored my computer. I stepped awayyyyy from the email. I confess that I have become obsessive about communicating with friends via this box, while my family sits feet away from me. I know I’m not alone, and I don’t beat myself up too much because I am a HORRIBLE phone person (HATE the phone) so email is really my only connection. But I really can’t express what a relief it was to just IGNORE EMAIL! And you know what? The sky didn’t fall.
Still, despite all the fun and play and relaxation, it was nice to drive away from the school this morning and know that I have my routine back. I have returned to email and connected with friends and freelance clients. I caught up on the mail. I even read a bit of the paper! (I was an ostrich over break, head in the sand.) I hope to get back into my exercise this week, too.
But… well. I’m looking forward to summer break!
Here’s a picture of our family tubing at the Fraser Tubing Hill!






I am the writer/owner of ‘MA! motherhood with attitude.’ The artist/owner of our company, Tiffany, will add her two cents on this blog now and then, as well. Tiffany and I often talk about the struggle to earn a buck through our freelancing as we also try to make the ‘MA! dream’ come true. Our mission is to expose ‘perfect parenting propaganda’ for what it is: hogwash! We adore imperfect parents (and embrace the fact that we are among them.)
i need to step away more as well.
Comment by feener — January 5, 2009 @ 4:17 pmI tried to institute a media-free zone for an hour every day a few months ago, and it’s HARD. I’m inspired by your success! Glad you had a wonderful family break!
Comment by Megan — January 6, 2009 @ 9:26 ami did a post on my new gig and mentioned you guys
http://www.nj.com/parenting/fiona_charles/index.ssf/2009/01/moms_who_took_their_passion_an.html
Comment by feener — January 6, 2009 @ 11:21 amGreat picture, and welcome back, refreshed!!! Only 15%?? Maaaaaan, how do you do it??? I think mine are striving for law school…
Comment by Dani — January 6, 2009 @ 9:19 pm