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Jody: Mom of 5 (teenagers on up!) and a grandmother
I am a pre-menopausal mother of five... two teenaged daughters, and three older sons, one of whom just completed his second tour in Iraq. I have literally changed thousands of diapers in my years as a mother and more recently as a grandmother. I dream... nay, I live for the day when the proverbial reversal of roles kick in and my kids have the pleasure of changing my diapers.


 

Step what?

September 3, 2009 — Jody @ 2:13 pm

It has been almost 2 months since my future ex informed me that his ‘happily ever after’ did not include me.  During that time I’ve experienced a wide variety of emotions, many that I have never felt before.  Helplessness, hopelessness, uncertainty, hurt, confusion, jealousy, resignation, anger and finally most recently, confidence.

Rocky, my youngest, asked what ‘she’  was like, and how old her children were.  She was hoping that she would get a younger step-sister and no longer be the baby in the family.

Step-sister… step-mother… wow.  I had never even thought about that.

Not only had this woman taken my place in my husband’s life, she would also be squeezing into my space in my childrens’  lives.  The thought sucked the breath out of my lungs and left my head spinning. 

green2The thought also renewed my determination to find Aladdin’s lamp.  We’ll see just how great of a step mother she can be while sitting on a lily pad at the pond. 

Ribbit!

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3 Comments »
  1. Ugh. Stepmom. Fortunately your kids are YOURS and won’t be easily swayed. They don’t see any frosting on her at all, she’s just your garden variety twinkie to them, so hang in there.

    Comment by Megan — September 3, 2009 @ 3:27 pm
  2. I know that feeling too well, the “sucked the breath out of my lungs and left my head spinning” feeling, and because of the exact same thought. All will be well, I type from experience, and no one can replace you. Ever.

    Comment by Lisa — September 3, 2009 @ 3:55 pm
  3. Jody, I don’t know if your kidding? is there really another women? and did your daughter really say that? or was that you making up a blog? Why would your daughter say something like that! who’s the one doing the talking you or Dickidoo? why would she be so free to talk that way? Does she know whats up in the future? Whos making plans?

    Comment by R S — September 9, 2009 @ 9:09 am

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