I am the writer/owner of ‘MA! motherhood with attitude.’ The artist/owner of our company, Tiffany, will add her two cents on this blog now and then, as well. Tiffany and I often talk about the struggle to earn a buck through our freelancing as we also try to make the ‘MA! dream’ come true. Our mission is to expose ‘perfect parenting propaganda’ for what it is: hogwash! We adore imperfect parents (and embrace the fact that we are among them.)Mae’s Sisters
Delaney and Allie decided that they wanted to write about their experiences as Mae’s sisters. I thought I’d share their words here…
Allie’s Essay
HOW IT FEELS TO BE MAE’S SISTER
When Mom brought Mae home, I thought everything would be good. When I saw her eyes, it felt warm inside. Having her home was a joy. I got to hold her the first time. When we heard the honking noise we were so surprised. Mom and Mae were at the hospital six days. When she came home I was so happy. I got to feed her a bottle. When I found out Mae was going to have heart surgery, I was sad. But it will make her feel good without oxygen. I hope Mae feels better after this surgery. I feel like the hospital does not want us. [Allie says this because she is too young to visit Mae.] But now everything changed. I get to brush her hair every day now. I want to change her diaper. And that’s how I felt ever since. THE END.
Delaney’s Essay
HOW IT FEELS TO BE MAE’S SISTER
When Mae was born, it felt like a blanket of love. I was so happy I was a big sister again! When I saw her, I was anxious to hold her but very careful.
When Mom and Dad brought Mae home, I thought everything was going to be perfect. But 7 days later, Mae went to the hospital again. One day, Mom brought Mae to the doctor. Mom said she was concerned about Mae’s breathing. They checked her breathing. They were concerned about it, too. If the doctors were concerned about it then they’re doing something about it. They did. They sent her to Children’s Hospital. But they were so concerned that they sent her in an ambulance.
But when Mae came home, she came home with oxygen. The best thing was we get to feed her with a bottle. But two weeks later we found out she was having heart surgery. I feel just a wreck knowing she’s going to the hospital. But we all know it’s going to make her better. But the best thing is she’ll have a brand new life. THE END
I will share any comments with the girls so please feel free to leave your thoughts!
Delaney & Allie,
Comment by kelli kindel — March 1, 2010 @ 9:01 amI am so incredibly proud of you. Mae is a very lucky little girl to have such special big sisters. I’m confident that Mae will be feeling better real soon. With love, Kelli (The Rum Cake Lady).
Hi Delaney and Allie:
Mae is so lucky to have you two as big sisters! You’ve given her so much love, and have been such a big help for your mom and dad. Brian and I are very proud of you. Soon Mae will be home and feeling better. Love you both! Kathleen
Comment by Kathleen Huss — March 1, 2010 @ 9:20 amDear Delaney and Allie,
The expression of your feelings on paper is beautiful! You are taking after your mother’s footsteps. Mae is so lucky to have you both as her big sisters and I know soon you will be able to help with many feedings and many diaper changes. I can’t wait to see you both next week after Mae’s surgery. Love you both! Jennifer
Comment by Jennifer Chmel — March 1, 2010 @ 9:54 amDear Delaney and Allie,
You are as much a blessisng to Mae as she is to you! What lovely writing! We are keeping all of you in our prayers and in our hearts.
God bless you,
Comment by Mrs. McDonald and Miss Camille — March 1, 2010 @ 10:13 amMuch love,
Mrs. McDonald and Miss Camille
Delaney and Allie,
Comment by Lori Ware — March 1, 2010 @ 10:35 amI read your words and hear the love in your hearts. You sound like Seph’s sisters. I know you are scared for sweet Mae, but know that there are a lot of people praying to our God who is strong and mighty. You are both beautiful writers, it comes from your heart…just like your mom! Give yourselves all a hug from us. We love you and think about you always!
Lori, Joe, Seph, Mallori and Hannah
Dear Delaney & Allie,
Thank you for your wonderful essays. You tell stories and write as beautifully as your mommy does. Mae is lucky to have such good big sisters as you, give her a kiss, and save a kiss and a big hug for mom and dad too. I hope to meet you someday and visit you in Colorado.
Love,
Comment by Stacy Gittleman — March 1, 2010 @ 11:30 amStacy, Craig, Jolie, Nathan and Toby
Dear Allie and Delaney:
You are the bestest sisters on the entire planet. No, in the entire solor system. No, in the entire Universe. There are NO BETTTER caring and loving sisters that the two of you. I just wanted you to know that.
Thanking of you….Janine Shea (you don’t know me but your Mom does).
Comment by Janine Shea — March 1, 2010 @ 11:47 amDelaney and Allie,
Comment by Liz O'Sullivan — March 1, 2010 @ 1:20 pmYou are such loving, helpful, brave big sisters. I’m sure that helps Mae and your Mom and Dad in this challenging time.
Liz O’Sullivan (Tommy and Michael’s mom)
Delaney and Allie,
Comment by tiffany — March 1, 2010 @ 3:29 pmWOW! I am so impressed with your writing. It’s very brave of you to use words to share your feelings about Mae! You two must be super-smart, because there are even adults who have a hard time using words to say how they feel. Before long, you will be able to teach Mae to do it, too! :)
Dear Delaney and Allie,
Comment by Judy Joseph — March 1, 2010 @ 4:14 pmMae is so lucky to have you as her big sisters! I know you will help your mom and dad take very good care of her, and especially share your love and thoughtfulness.
I love you all,
Judy
Dear Delaney and Allie,
We think that you both inherited your mom’s wonderful writing talent! Mae is lucky to have all of you there to take care of her, and we know that when she’s big enough to read, she’ll love seeing your essays.
Love,
Comment by The Finfrocks — March 1, 2010 @ 7:29 pmJennifer, Bill, Julia, & Davis
Delaney and Allie,
Although I haven’t met you, I can tell from your beautiful essays (and all the wonderful stories your mom has shared about you) that you are special sisters. Mae is so blessed to have the love, care and concern of TWO brave, thoughtful and sweet sisters! You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Katie
Comment by Katie Elwood — March 1, 2010 @ 8:00 pmDelaney and Allie-
Mae is so blessed to have 2 such wonderful sisters looking out for her. We can’t wait for Mae to get better and come up the street and use the pogo swing in the front yard. Leo already has plans to bounce her gently at first. We love you tons and are just up the street if you need us.
Comment by Moira McCabe — March 1, 2010 @ 8:55 pmlove, moira,madeleine, grace and leo…and kevin
Dear Delaney and Allie,
I am so proud of you! Mae is one lucky lady to have you two as big sisters. It’s OK to be nervous or a bit scared. If you want to talk, hang out or you just need a hug I am here for you. Take good care of Mae and your parents. I love you!!!
P.S. Chris, Aiden, Landis & I can’t wait to see you all again!
Comment by Ann Kelly — March 1, 2010 @ 10:07 pmDear Delaney and Allie,
When I was very sick, you helped your mom take care of my daughters and you had a lemonade stand on your street that my girls still talk about. It’s obvious, therefore, that you know how to help people out in hard times. That’s called having the gift of empathy, and it’s a wonderful gift to have. Who you are both becoming because your baby sister needs so many prayers, love and good care right now is something I hope I get to watch for a long time. Thank you for being compassionate and so big-hearted. Imagine the stories you’ll tell your baby sister! She will ask you to tell her over and over about how much you loved her.
Love,
Comment by Heather — March 5, 2010 @ 9:42 pmHeather